How to Find Your Type

by Sara Musfeldt

Of course, my type is someone who is smart, funny, and cute. But who doesn’t have that type? I always struggle with this question.

We should dig deep to determine what we need in a mate to be happy long term. If you are serious in your search, here are a few suggestions to get you there.

Take a personality test. A quick online search will turn up dozens of tests including the Myers-Briggs personality test. Now most of these tests are geared toward career options, but any analysis of yourself will help you identify your own traits. This will no doubt offer an insight into what makes you tick.

Make a list of your ex’s positive traits. Don’t relive your past relationship traumas and self-destruct. But do learn from your experiences. Seek out qualities of a person that you know, based on your history, will work.

Mimic your fantasy celebrity love affair. This one is just for fun. AOL Personals has categorized some online profiles by similarities to celebs like Matthew McConaughey, Patrick Dempsey, and Katie Holmes.

Values times three. In a long-lasting relationship shared values are key. Your partner should never compromise your priorities in life and your fundamental beliefs. If your career, children, geographic location, and faith are what matter most to you, then only go out with someone who shares your values.

Shop around. Online dating sites are a gift for the picky single. Visit a few dating sites like Match, EliteMate, or Singlesnet.com and just browse. It’s likely there are certain qualities you will like about someone that you hadn’t thought about before. Who knows, maybe you’ll decide to join a dating site and meet him or her for real.

All of this is part of the process in finding your type. Suggestions like these will guide you in the right direction, but keep an open mind. You might be surprised if you date people that aren’t necessarily your exact type.

Other dating suggestions can be found at www.datingtales.net/online_dating_guide.html.

About the Author:

About the Author: Sara Musfeldt operates a blog filled with dating stories and dating profile tips for everyone. She has also produced an online dating advice to help single people everywhere find love.

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