The Truth About Dating The Women You Want

by Charles Cruz

Over the years I’ve seen many guys fail in dating the women that they desire. It really didn’t matter if they were rich, good looking, or smart. While many people might think those characteristics would allow a guy to succeed, the truth is that those aren’t required.

Here’s the truth. Improve on these and you’ll be up a notch!

Get Plenty of Sleep

It’s a good idea to approach women when you’re looking and feeling great. Things will be easier when you have enough “good” sleep. So that’s sleeping without alcohol, drugs, or anything else that could reduce quality sleep.

It’s a fact that if you get plenty of sleep, you’ll feel better. When you feel better, you look better. It helps if you don’t look tired while approaching women.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T, What Does It Mean To You?

That might sound kind of crazy, but most guys don’t have much self love. Actually, there’s a lot of hate or not enough respect for themselves.

It’s a mental thing. When you’re actively loving and respecting yourself, it’s easy to see the value that you offer. The opposite of this is putting more love and respect into beautiful women, people that you barely know about.

Building Up Yourself

Another poor thing that I see is that guys don’t feel good about themselves because they feel inferior. The sad thing is that many of them don’t have anything to offer. This might have been because of low self-confidence, poor social skills, being selfish, or a combination of all of the above.

There are guys that just know what they know. They live in their own world and have nothing that women would even care for. They want women that look like super-models, but at the same don’t have anything to offer.

Now It’s Time For You To Execute the Plan

If you thought that I was going to discuss some special dating gimmick, sorry to disappoint you. While those might be helpful, what I’ve mentioned are essential things that many single guys miss. After teaching for over a decade now, I’ve seen these things lessen the chances of success with dating.

If you really want to be good at approaching women fast, you got to work a proven plan and do it fast. Once you develop these core skills, you’ll be adding to the total package - You!

About the Author:

Charles Cruz is an dating coach at http://www.DatingFastTrack.com. You can subscribe to his “Dating Fast Track” newsletter to learn how to attract women and more.

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